Mundane Masturbation….

Is there such a thing?  Well I think it can get boring and predictable just like anything else if you let it.  It’s late at night and you see some hot chick on TV so you decide to rub one out quick so you can sleep well, right? Have there ever been moments when you delayed your orgasm just a little because you knew it made it feel better?  Tantra is a means where you use breath and attention to hold off then eventually extend orgasm.

What benefits does Tantra have?

In addition to making your orgasm last longer it also can benefit you when you have sex.  You can become the energizer bunny without batteries for your woman if you practice tantric masturbation.  Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to rock her world and fuck her for hours and hours making her climax more times than she can count?  Of course it would….. you’ll be the living sex toy she’s always dreamed of

My personal experiences with Tantra

A lot of Tantra has to do with rythm & breathing;this is the case with or without a partner.  I had a partner where we had sex for four or five hours in the yab yum position (guy sitting cross legged,  girl on top).  It was an amazing experience where I think I learned to enjoy the art of sex as a process vs. the end product of orgasm.  Don’t get Me wrong the cumming part is exquisite, but the journey was just as enjoyable as the destination .

Shana had him helpless tied to the bed

“So…………seems I’ve found out your little secret,”Shana said smiling.  “W-w-what do you mean?,” Jason stammered.  “Well, it seems like all this time you’ve been fantasizing about me taking the lead in bed, haven’t you Jason?.”  Before he could even answer Shana pulled off her thong and balled it up and stuffed it into his mouth.  “It’s ok honey, I don’t think it’s important to hear what your opinion is at this point,”Shana said matter of factly.  Jason felt so humiliated and turned on that his wife would be so dominant with him.

Shana teased and tormented is cock

She leaned over him and looked intently into his eyes.  Jason saw a different person completely.  Shana was animated and looked almost predatory toward him.  He felt his cock pulsating with excitement.  Shana laughed at his burgeoning hard on as she took her finger tips and caressed it very lightly.  Jason’s back arched desperately so he could get more stimulation but she pulled her hand away and giggled at him. “I’m just getting started on you,” Shana said flatly.  She sauntered up to her dresser drawer and pulled out a nice sized vibrator.  Jason was petrified she was going to use it on him.

Jason couldn’t believe how  dominant she was being with him…..

Shana sat in front of him in plain view.  She slowly opened her legs to reveal her beautifully shaved pussy.  She started to masturbate in front of him her eyes never leaving his.  Jason had never been so turned on or felt so helpless in his life.  After an hour of her tormenting him she casually got up and sat on his face while looking down at him.  “Could you imagine eating this pussy after it had been fucked by another man honey?,” she said smiling.  “I don’t think your little cock is good enough for me anymore Jason,” she said while grinding on his face.   Jason climaxed with no stimulation only Shana’s erotic words that struck a chord deep within him.  After Shana untied him and they lay together she looked at him he could hardly return her gaze.  Jason could never look at her the same now. He knew that their relationship had changed forever; they both knew it.

 Shana on her way toward dominance…..

Shana read Jason’s magazines with an inquisitive fervor.  As the stories unfolded she saw the emerging theme in each; a man’s total submission to a woman.  She could absolutely see herself in this role and she smiled as she had all these wonderful ideas running through her head.  Shana went to shoe store and found an amazing pair of strappy Vince Camuto heels.   She knew she’d have him under her feet in no time pleading to suck her toes.

She loved the thought of humiliating him

One time her and Jason were watching a porn together and she made a comment about how well endowed the actor was.  She noticed Jason was almost speechless with embarassment as he lay naked there his barely average cock resting listless on his leg.  Shana giggled at him and Jason’s cock got hard.  She thought of an ideal way of humiliating him completely and changing the dynamic of their relationship forever.

Shana brings Jason to his knees

Shana looked exquisite.  She bought the perfect purple bustier with a matching garter belt and black lace top stockings.  Shana also got a pedicure and some foot jewelry to drive him crazy.  She smiled to herself as she  admired her reflection in the mirror. This would be better than any story he could read because it would her dominating him.

Jason comes home and finds the Mistress of his dreams…..

Jason walked in and saw Shana lying on the bed smiling like a cheshire cat.  “Oh wow, honey you look………omg you look beautiful.”  ” I know,” she purred.  “Why don’t you come into the bedroom and take off your clothes toeboy,” she said.  “Uh, uh, okay,” Jason stuttered nervously.  He stumbled in the bedroom as if he was drunk taking off his clothes.  She stood before him and smiled.  “Oh I see that little cock of yours is hard already,” Shana said with a  smile.  “Lay on the bed”, she commanded.  Jason spread out while Shana attached his arms and wrists to the bed.  “Now we’re going to play a little game,” she said softly.  Jason looked up at Shana as if he was seeing his wife of seven years for the first time.  “God,” he thought, “what is she going to me?”……………..

Jason always wished his wife would be his Mistress……

You know the type………reading Leg Show magazine oogling over the stories and wishing so badly they had a bitchy, domininant spouse.  Jason is a closet humiliation addict who secretly imagined his wife being the kind of woman in the stories he read that could take charge and turn him into the submissive little bitch boy he knew that he was.  He would peruse the internet and jerk off endlessly imagining sexy Shana taking the lead and controlling him.

Shana always knew Jason had a few kinks….

Jason obviously had a foot fetish.  Shana loved the foot rubs, shoe shopping and such, but somehow she always felt there was more under the surface with Jason.  Any time she teased him about things he just melted and she could feel it.  She enjoyed that power of seeing him give into her when she was demanding.  Once she even played around with tying him to the bed and found that highly erotic.

Jason left out some of his humiliation stories….

He had a business trip and hurriedly got ready leaving out all of his secret naughties. Shana got home and went to the bedroom to change.  She saw the magazines by the night stand and it piqued her interest.  She knew Jason was a little bit deviant, but she had now idea how deep his submission ran.  Many of the stories were about cuckolding.  “Wow she thought, it turns him on to think of me with other men”.  Shana smiled to herself thinking of exactly what she would do to Jason she wondered exactly how far she could take this………….

Chastity is the Ultimate Male Surrender

Imagine being madly in love with the girl of your dreams, but she is utterly unattainable.  Why? Well simply stated because you were not well suited to Her ; or to put it bluntly you were not good enough.  I know that’s pretty harsh isn’t it?  What if that very same Femme Fatale  was also your key holder? Well I’ve found Myself in this somewhat devilish, yet wonderful situation.

Cock locked and controlled

I’ve managed to find a lovely submissive guy who cooks, cleans AND does laundry.  Controlling him was easily achieved  while I worked My magic with his weakness.  Mike is such a toe boy and really had an obsession with My beautiful feet.  So one day he came over and was helping Me with homework…….

I lured Mike into Chastity with My feet

I caught him looking at My toes while he was doing something.  I smiled at him in a predatory way and said “Ya know Mike, I’d let you rub them if you did something for Me……” “What,” his voice quivered.  “Well you gotta wear something for Me,” I purred.  “Anything,” he whispered.  “Go into My top dresser drawer and pull out the black box in it,” I commanded.

Mike hands over control of his cock

Mike came out with a little zipped black case.  I took it upon Myself to buy him a lovely little cock cage because I knew it would only make him more submissive to Me.  I told him to strip down naked and I pulled out the chastity device and placed it him while he gasped.  I took the key and put in a silver chain around My neck.  “You can rub em now Mike,” I laughed.  I knew I had both the key to his cock and his heart .