A man’s desire for female authority
I’m rereading Joseph Campbell’s The Power of Myth. It’s interesting how although a book’s words may be the same you get something entirely different from it depending on where you’re at in your life experience. When I examine the feminine archetype of a Mistress in the context of domination I feel it is the many different faces of the Goddess in one archetype. There are both the elements considered light and dark within it and depending on how you were imprinted sexually those elements become most meaningful to you as a submissive male. Ultimately I believe the root to either polarity of Mistress comes from a desire for female authority whether kind or cruel……irrational or the voice of wisdom.
Female domination as means for self expansion
I think the seduction of domination and submission lie in the ability to experience self and other differently. The relinquishing and exerting of perceived control has the ability to stimulate our brains creating a cornucopia of feel good chemicals. Sometimes the willful acceptance of pain helps us to overcome it. A Mistress’s role in this sense can be the arbiter of the transcendent. The line between profane and profound is in perception and sexuality has varying degrees of those distinctions. I’m always looking past the line ;).
The reemergence of the Goddess
I see a huge need in our society for balanced female authority. It’s kind of funny I have Cherokee heritage and in that tribe the women made all the big decisions….it must be in My DNA !! So as I write this I’m wondering what your perspective is? How do these feminine archetypes relate to your sexuality and why? I’d be interested to find out and add it to My repertoire of  knowledge. I love learning what makes you tick!! Feel free to email Me at jenna@enchantrixempire.com or hit Me up on yahoo jennaenchantrix@yahoo.com , I’m looking forward to it!
I think the archetype imprint is usually maternal – or an aunt or even a grandmother, or all of those. Whatever it is or was – their strictness, their softness, their direction, their control, even if they embarrassed you a bit or employed some form of consequences for behavior – corporal or otherwise. It imprinted you. It got you here to there. It, whatever “it” was, took care of you. So you want it back. You need it back. A woman who gets that can own you.
Thank you for sharing 🙂 I appreciate it!
I think men are physically built to be inferior to women. Look at the penis, for example. It hangs on the outside of the body. How stupid is that? It’s almost like we’re designed to be controlled by women. Whenever I watch blowjob porn, I see the Woman in control. Some people think he is dominating Her but one chomp of Her teeth and his dick is gone. Make no mistake, She is calling the shots. I think women generally have way more patience than men, too. That’s why I jerk off all the time. Women know how to enjoy their orgasms and would rather wait for the best than settle for something less.
I’ve always thought of a cock as a leash really teehee thanks for your comments jizzheadguy can’t wait to get your legs over your head again ;).
I think if someone is submissive it shows itself sooner or later. Finding out what someone is about deep down is something that happens during a “courtship” that manifests itself thru trust & shared feelings. Some of those feelings may be submissive ones & drawing out these kind of feelings should be done slowly & methodiclly until the submissive is ready to embrace this part of who they are. Intimacy is everything, yes?
*blush* Ms. Jenna, why does it seem like that’s my reputation now? I’ve called so many times that all the LDW ladies know, expect, require me to cum on my own face! I barely say hello and they’re like, “ok jizzy, time to get you flipped over” and I’m like, “um, right now?!” and they’re like, “yep, right now.” *lol* I guess I better get use to it…
I think every submissive goes through a period where they realize that this who they are and the plunge into the unknown of experiencing that and eventually the vulnerability of sharing that with someone. I think it takes a lot of courage and self honesty to experience both. Thank you for sharing your opinion!!
Yep you should definitely get used to it jizzy:P