Am I Normal Mistress?

I get asked this question A LOT. Especially among the cock suckers. You fellas seem to wonder if your oral fixation makes you gay or not. Of course I’m going to tease you about being a homo because that’s how I am but I don’t think it puts you in a gay vacuum. If there is one thing I’ve learned being a phone Mistress is that a person’s sexuality is a lot more complex than gay or straight, male or female etc. I ascribe to the Kinsey philosophy that concluded we all fall somewhere on a gradient scale between hetero or homosexuality. For Me personally it’s always been about a person’s soul. If I can see and feel that person’s light I find them attractive despite what kind of god pod they have.

Safe, Sane & Consensual

This is pretty much the BDSM credo that they teach you before you scene at a dungeon or attend a kink party or whatever. I think it has a lot of merit. If you aren’t hurting anyone, who cares? Many cross dressers go through a sort of guilt where they purge all their pretty things in hopes of erasing a part of themselves they think is unacceptable. I say trying to deny that part of you is much like trying to hold an inflatable ball under water… some point that shit is going to have to come up by necessity. So it’s much better to embrace all of who you are and not judge yourself for having those needs.

There is no normal

I believe there is no normal when it comes to sexuality;  it’s illusory, largely over rated and let’s face it just plain boring. So from cock sucker to cuckold……..cross dresser or occasional panty slut enjoy all the complexities of who you are and what you enjoy. Besides finding out is half the fun and am I’m looking forward to helping you on your journey or sexploration;). Can’t wait to share our kinks together!