Male Submission in Sexuality

Occasionally I get in the mood to wax philosophic about BDSM and spirituality. It’s a favorite topic of Mine to talk about because I think one of the reasons our society has such a complicated relationship with sex is because it fails to acknowledge its tantric capacity to transcend the duality of the “good” or “bad” label.  Male submission makes perfect sense from the standpoint of you poor stress laden fellows wanting a respite from the stream of incessant responsibilities and thoughts that sub space can allow.

Submission and higher states of consciousness

When I started mediation I had the misguided notion I had to clear My mind of all thoughts. Later I realized it was the awareness of the transient nature of those thoughts….just the observation that was the goal. It’s difficult to shift from a linear perspective when our society is run by only things it can quantify vs. the ineffable. I like to approach domination that way where I can meld sensuality with awakening bringing you into the present moment fully aware and surrendering to it.

The Tantric Masturbation experience

Masturbation can either be a profane knuckle shuffling experience or a profound journey into self aware present mindedness. It depends on what your specific intentions are with it. I don’t judge the quick and dirty or the slow and flirty almost every kind of auto erotic behavior has it’s purpose. My favorite is the one where there is harmony and a deep communication between you and I that leaves us both smiling, refreshed and delighted at the end. Those moments are some of My absolute favorites!