I’ve had men say things to Me like  “oh you’re evil” or “you’re so sweet”.  I joke around and say that guys want a good bad girl or a bad good girl…….either way makes for an interesting encounter, eh?  I think what makes sensual domination so appealing is they free both the man and woman to be themselves.  When I’m out to dinner with My sub by all appearances he seems to be the one in charge, little does the waitress know that I have him locked in a chastity cage and I have My foot  resting on it under the table cloth *giggle*.  He is happiest when we’re together and I’m calling the shots.  My sensual domination of him becomes a mutual exploration of each other.  When I tie him up, humiliate him, sit on his face or have him kiss My feet….. he loves Me more for it.  Giving him female structure is the surest way I can show him that I care for him deeply and want to meet his needs as he wants to meet Mine.  The interchange is seamless, comfortable and deeply relaxing for both of us.  At the end of the night when I’m spooning him and he’s wearing My panties he falls into a deep restful sleep; contented and happily owned.  He wouldn’t want it any other way because My way makes him happiest.