The Biggest Sexual Organ
I’m a sapiosexual. There I said it. Whew, I feel so much better being loud and proud and out of the intellectual kink closet. So what is sapiosexuality exactly and why do sapiosexuality and kink kinda go together like peanut butter and jelly? According to Web MD Sapiosexuality means that a person is sexually attracted to highly intelligent people, so much so that they consider it to be the most important trait in a partner. The most attractive sexual organ is not only the biological markers of hotness or being well endowed; it also resides in large part between the ears. As one of My submissive astutely said “It is all between the ears.” As a seasoned Mistress My experience has 100% matched up with that statement. Because let’s face it our neurochemicals, axons , dendrites and synapses are responsible for all those sexual responses. I think that’s why some sapiosexuals are drawn to phonesex because it is an erotic mental practice of co-creating a scenario and playing it out all in your mind. It is also a safe anonymous way to explore your kinky fantasies without judgment……unless you’re a humiliation whore ofcourse;).
Atypical Sexuality
How does sapiosexuality play out in the kink realm? I cannot speak for other people who have this kink, but only for Myself. I rather enjoy pairing intellectual activities with kink and sex. One time I read Immanuel Kant’s Critique of Pure Reason while sitting on My submissive’s face and asked him questions about it. He has a Phd in philosophy so it was fun to put him in that predicament. The funny part is that highly intellectual people that are stuck in their analytical minds achieve sub space rather quickly when irrational sexuality is literally right their face. I love it. It was so much fun to fluster him and make him switch back and fourth between the rational thinking mind and the more intuitive feeling space. Many intellectuals have difficulty switching off the analytical mind. I think that is why the trope that intelligent people are usually unhappy exists. I do not think that it is the case that intelligence alone is the reason this is a problem….it is the constant analysis without rest that can cause this. Those on the autistic spectrum suffer a great deal from this analysis paralysis malady and kink is a welcome respite from this tendency. I attract and enjoy this type of submissive in part because I have a touch of the tism Myself. It is one of My Fem dom super powers.
Autism, Kink & the Sapiosexual
I don’t think it is surprising that people on the spectrum are drawn to kink for the aforementioned reasons. The mind can either be a great companion or your worst enemy depending on how you train it. One of My autistic subs has a mad foot fetish and I enjoy just shoving My feet in his face when he’s info dumping or stuck in an autistic fixation. I really love watching all the stress and strain of that over active analytical mind melt away. He tells Me that spending time with Me is like getting a mental, emotional, and physical massage. I helped him write his thesis both as a research assistant and fun Fem dom distraction ;). So I am curious who are My fellow puzzle piece kindreds out there? If you’re on the spectrum how do you feel that influences your kinks and sexuality? Feel free to comment or reach out to Me via email, I’d love to hear about your particular experiences as an Autistic person or otherwise. Looking forward to talking with you about it!
I have trouble switching off my analytical mind, too
I doubt You would want me, as I’m old enough to be Your father. I love philosophy too!
I’m on the autism spectrum, too.
I’m a Sapio as well! I would like to discuss Kant with you. I prefer Nietzsche. I wish you would sit on my face. I am also analytical but wish you would help me enter sub space. Help me to become more intuitive!
I’m also on the autism spectrum
I wish you would help!
I am passionate about psychology and philosophy. I have a bachelor degree in psychology. I am also very submissive. I want to read your views on bdsm
I also wish you would release my highest potential ads submissive
Hi there!
I’d love so much to learn more about you and your kinks!! It is also nice talk with with individuals who are also on the spectrum & kinky because I think ultimately we get each other much better than talking to neurotypicals. Feel free to email Me jenna@enchantrixempire.com or chat with Me on Skype jenna.swann.3 so we can get to know each other!!!
The analytical mind is great when it is relegated to its proper place; and that is the servant and not the Master/Mistress.
I would love ❤️ to get know you better! What would you like to know about me? One of my kinks is edge play and chastity for a strong, mature, intelligent woman!
One of the few ways I can relate to a woman is when she is edging me as I talk to her or if I’m kept in chastity.
I would love ❤️ to serve you
I find it intoxicating to text a woman like you, if you are mature…I feel ashamed to have wanted to type to you on my knees…I find it difficult not to edge as I think of you
I think I lost you. I did like what you wrote about on chastity and need your help with that!
Hi Adam if you would like to chat with Me directly please email Me at jenna@enchantrixempire.com, or seek Me out on Skype jenna.swann3, I would love to chat with you about being on the spectrum, chastity training, sapiosexuality and all the wonderful topics in between!!
There is no shame in that, I find it rather endearing and am starting to like you already :).
I’m going to reach out to via email, please check the email account you signed up with to ready My blog!!
Princess-
I doubt that I will hear back from You! I feel like I am descending the edging rabbit hole for You. I’m ashamed that You have more dominance than I do.
I’m fighting the urge to belong to You for life as I wish I had You!
I’m trying NOT to submit to You and it embarrasses me.
*smirks*
I’m glad that You found Yourself liking me.
I am glad that I made You smirk at me!
I don’t know what You meant by there being no shame in that.
I don’t understand what You mean about me being analytical. Do You mean You want me to learn how to be passionate? Admit that I could fall down the rabbit hole?
I am away from my family and wish You were around.
I wish that when I am weak and need to surrender control, I could depend on You!
One of my secrets is that I am a huge … weakling when it comes to edge play. The chemical release of mine feels exquisite.
I’d love to do a call with you adam, I think you should give yourself an early Christmas gift and chat with Me on the phone sometime! 😉
I think it is about time for you to call Me and find out, adam 🙂
Princess-
I think Your right! I adore 🥰 how intelligent You sound. I deeply appreciated Your blog on male chastity, where You wrote about having Your soft, pretty hand wrapped around me…
It has been difficult for me as I have been going through withdrawal alone!!! I would fall in love 🥰 with You, my princess if You had Your soft hand wrapped around me like this, I am terrified to surrender my autonomy for You, as I let You control me! I appreciate how intelligent You appear! I am dancing on the abyss as I look into it.
I am curious if You are innocent aw well?
If You are, I would treat You like my Wife, for life. If You would want me?
Princess-
I have decided that I require You as my Princess! I wish we would be in an intimate relationship where I treat You like my Princess and wife. I doubt You would want me for long term.
I am falling into the abyss and require Your soft hand. I love how You speak of the beauty of male chastity!
I would appreciate feeding engorged for You for long periods as in days
I apologize for taking up Your time, if you aren’t interested.
I would love Your help
I’m here when you’re ready 🙂
Ofcourse!
Goddess Jenna
I appreciate that I made You smile! I’m working on making time for You. …I wish I knew what You said of course to.
I wish You would stroke my ego with Your soft hand, if You train me to be chaste for You! You make me blush, as I consider becoming dependent on a strong, mature Goddess
Goddess Jenna
I appreciate that I made You smile!
Goddess
You ARE superior to me, I feel my head bowing in shame as I am resisting the urge to reach out to Youwith my hand, so You can transform me to an edger!
Goddess
I have decided on YOU, as I am focusing my urges on You to remain chaste. I decided to offer You my hand.
Does this make You smirk?
Goddess Jenna
I will wait to hear back from You after I share this.
I have a fantasy of being excruciating forced by You into mental chastity for You, where I ache and throb no end to be with You, as I try to help You
I feel like I could fall for You
I often fantasize about being in a chastity cage in Your presence
Goddess Jenna-
I read about Your profile on Chastity Hell. you DO deserve me to treat You like a living Goddess. I so wrong about You. I am so ashamed and will strive to learn to obey You!!!!
Starting now I will hand over all of my orgasms to You as my cock belongs to You now! You now hold my fate in Your hands. You will revel in my submission as I will hand over my orgasms for Your pleasure!I want to see how deviant You as I become progressively more submissive to You, as I have been too long a chronic masturbator!
I pray to You that You are serious! I also hope this makes You laugh at my discomfort
I apologize profusely for calling You a Princess, when You deserve to be my Godess!
Goddess Jenna
My mind is blown!
I need You to change my emotions to focus on You. I need the maddening experience of my affection to be on You! I need to feel that pain and pleasure all the time. I want to experience that euphoria permanently. I wish that you are giggling at me and You are that powerful and strong. I feel like a junkie needing his edge fix! I totally misjudged You, especially if You are giggling at me
Can’t wait to have our first call together adam!!! 🙂
I prefer to be called Mistress or Goddess 🙂
Goddess –
Nor can I.
I want to ache for You!
I wish I could fall for You hard💕
Goddess Jenna/
I am ashamed to admit that I have an addiction to online porn. It humiliated me to admit this to You as You are stronger than I!
The pain and withdrawal are setting in
I wonder if You are giggling as I am starting to need Your help
I am shaking as I resist the urge to cum
Please tell me You are laughing
Goddess Jenna-
I’m ready for You! I am looking for a long-term relationship with You! I love ❤️ how attractive and innocent You appear!
I need Your help to remain chaste, I would like to know how You feel about mental chastity!
I’m so hard for You hurts. I feel like a junkie going through withdrawal! I feel so ashamed that I need Your help!
One of my kinks is to be humiliated by You! I am coming to realize Your strength of character.
I am ashamed that I need someone who looks so extremely innocent to be my protector
I wish You were my wife, Goddess, protector and confident. I hope I’m not placing too much responsibility on You!
I hope You will be dominant and here for a long-time!
I hate myself for being weak!
I hope You will feed on my weakness.
I wish I could spend hours edging for You as I flood myself with dopamine!
I’m
Goddess
I’m ready to be Yours!
My addiction is too strong to fight alone, I feel ashamed and dirty! I hope I make You 🤭 !
I need to be dependent on You and make You happy.
I am offering You my orgasms for Your pleasure. This causes me pain.
One of my wishes is that You would love to have me hooked on edging. I hope that I’m not projecting but I would love Your dominance to force me to submit to Your Goddess’ power as I am on my knees beneath You with an engorged throbbing erection for You to feed on my urges that are too powerful for me to control alone
Goddess-
I’m ready for our journey, I need a longterm relationship !
I sense myself dropping to my knees as I need You.
As I’m on my knees I would love to confess that I need You to be my Mistress to help keep me chaste and analytical. I will love to allow You to have my orgasms as Yours!
You deserve my pleasure that I abuse! I need to ache for a Goddess and realize being chaste and analytical is what You expect. Unfortunately, I can never be with You as You are the strong One.
I have enjoyed too many orgasms alone!
I feel humiliated confessing to You.
I hope You 🤭 at my discomfort
I wish I could bond with You and grow closer to You
Goddess Jenna-
I desperately need Your help! I need to belong to You, I feel so dirty and ashamed! I need help being forced to my knees physically and emotionally as I ache to serve You. I need to feel permanently engorged to feel safe! There are too many temptations! I admire Your strength and maturity! I need to submit and I feel embarrassed that I’m weak. I hope You live my intelligence
Call Me.