A Submissive’s Calling
You’ve tried to be like other guys, but you’ve always known that you don’t fit the male stereotype, do you? Pretending to be in charge for a submissive male is much like you trying to put on a pair of pants that are three sizes too small. Constricting, uncomfortable…….you can hardly breathe. You crave sensual domination. Every day you wake up and look in the mirror to behold the fake face you wear day in and day out hiding who you really are. The only respite you get from your busy mind is in the adept hands of a dominant woman. She intuitively feels your submission and knows how to wield it in such a way that you lose yourself and totally surrender;completely vulnerable. I am looking for the minds unafraid to drop pretense. I enjoy a male submissive capable of the cerebral sensuality that can serve Me as a creative muse and amusement. Men who are unafraid to face themselves and present to Me naked and real…..that’s who I want to serve Me. When you’re ready for that type of sensual domination. I’ll be here……..
I like what you’ve touched on in this post Ms Jenna. Often because of traditional gender roles and stereotypes, it’s hard for a male to accept his natural tendency towards being a submissive…even behind closed doors. Not every guy is meant to be the alpha male. If he’s not, better to accept his beta male role than to fail miserably at trying to dominate a relationship.
I think that gender roles have a huge impact on how we behave and what persona we’re supposed to uphold. Most of the alpha males I know are submissive behind closed doors because it is the only time they can relax and breathe. Both genders have their unique crosses to bear when it comes to societal pressures…..it’s nice when we can be a respite for each other instead of a source of stress. Thanks for reading Ms. Rayne:)
I’m submissive and if I want to keep women happy this is role I’ll have to accept. Women are very powerful!!! If you want to keep them happy you have to do what they say and want. With calls we’ve done you have taken charge. When you put me in bra/panty set then put makeup/ lipstick on me along with perfume/lotion then a dress my days of being alpha were over. I felt so weak/submissive/helpless and feminine when you did this to me. With all them mistresses knowing I’m a cream puff cup cake sissy there’s no going back.
nope that’s for sure! 🙂
I think you capture this incredibly well – from both sides of the coin. A man grows up with all these cultural indications surrounding him – be a “man”. Be strong, be a leader, take charge. It is everywhere so much so it just seems how things are supposed to be. But you are dead right – it does not fit. Way in there you feel weak, soft, feminine and anything but in charge. Faking it is such work. This first became clearest to me when I was about 20 and an attractive female friend (in a nice but assertive manner) handed me a silky slip and simply said “I want you to try this on……for me”….She was an attractive girl who dated “men” – older, alpha males. Somehow she just knew that was not me. She sensed it. I was off guard, confused, but inside I felt I had come home somehow. My deepest truth was between us. She handed me the piece. “Right now…for me”. The words “for me” settled into my brain like oxygen. “For me”. There was no “me” only her. It was not a thought, deeper it was, physical. I had to do what she said. I needed to.
I think we often think in binary terms when it comes to gender roles often submissive is equated with feminine etc…..I think it’s time to transcend those binaries……submissive doesn’t have to have a gender attached to it. It can merely be a predilection to allow the other to take the lead and for a submissive it’s not just a desire it’s a need as fundamental as breathing.
I think you are right. What fascinates me is how correct it feels when women are dominant with me. It is this deep weird internal feeling. I can ignore it or just go about my life most of the time but it is in there always. A woman can come along and say or do the simplest most innocuous thing and it hits me in some absurdly deep place. It can feel like it takes me over. It can be as simple as a woman using a certain tone or phrase or telling me what to do. I am fascinated by the depth and truth of it. It is hard to explain “needing” to do what someone tells you. How you can feel so powerless and yet have that feel correct. I don’t know where it comes from. I wonder if it is from the depth of having had a Mom who directed us as boys. When an adult female does that it feels comforting even if she is mean and harsh and sees you as a boy.
Of course, I agree with the message of Your post but on another note, GAW-DAMN You are hot in that red outfit! Even without the sensible and encouraging words of Your blog post, Miss Jenna, how could a man not feel an instinctive need to fall at your feet when he sees You in something like *that*? Femme fatale indeed!
Ms. Rachel you make Me blush! I miss tag teaming a little bitch with you girl, who’s our next victim hmbwhahahahaaa >:)?
Wow…you are so sexy when you’re strong! Just what a subbie needs!I am sure you aroused many a quiver in your subbies. In a good way, just the way they need it. And yes, you do look red hot sexy in that!
Thank you Ms. Meredith! 🙂 I’ve seen you work a subbie over a time or two, you’re very adept at keeping them where they belong! 😉
I am a stupid male, but not stupid enough to think that i don’t belong at Your feet. Or any Woman’s feet. we men *need* strong Women to control us, we need to know our place, we need to serve all Women.
Maybe that’s why I like trying to be a Woman; so i can feel the power of an Alpha Bitch!
The true power of a Woman comes from who She is and isn’t dependent on anything transient or assigned to something outside Herself.
I hope You feel my submission. I surrender to completely to You.
I am capable of cerebral sensuality that can serve You for Your amusement. I am unafraid to present myself to You as I am on my knees and dude.