So, You Have a Small Penis
What is it about small penis humiliation that makes it hurt so good? I love things that are mysterious, and I always felt that humiliation was one of those things that done with the right intention and timing can be quite magical. So how in the world can something so primal and inescapable as having a small penis possibly be magical you ask? Well, there is a Zen saying, “Let go or be dragged.” I’ve always thought it meant accept reality or suffer it.
Accepting You Have a Small Dick
Accepting the reality that you are a shorty in the pants department creates an opportunity to fetishize your condition. Why does this matter? You’re essentially taking all the negative & painful things you endured because of your penis and turning it into a virtual treasure trove for your spank bank. Essentially pain gets alchemized into pleasure; it is making the best out of your small penis humiliation situation. Now the little snickers you get from past disappointed girlfriends can be a major source of sub chub.
The Pleasure off Humiliation Masturbation
So how do you condition yourself to do this? That’s easy…..classical conditioning 101. Think of the most painful humiliating situation you’ve ever endured because of your small penis. Then focus on the elements that turn you on. Maybe the woman that humiliated you was super-hot and had pretty feet? Think of that and jerk it. You can use several situations and repeat that protocol. Eventually what will happen is that your brain will automatically synthesize humiliation as a sexual trigger and when you get made fun of for having a small dick, the verbal sting turns sweet. Suddenly that pinky wave become delightful instead of demoralizing. Before you know it, those painful memories and name calling turn into sources of pleasure. The brain is an enigmatic organ and the wonderfulness of it is we can actively engage in changing it however we want; that’s the beauty of neuroplasticity. I’d love to hear from any of you that have tried this or done this unintentionally and created a small penis humiliation fetish.
That is interesting. I completely relate to it. I can remember like yesterday the first time a girl asked me for “my measurement”. I was caught off guard and really froze. When I (halfway) recovered I sort of fudged the truth. She seemed to know I was not being honest. It was probably not “just” because of size but she did “friendzone” me and “size” was a significant factor. Not too long after a female friend of mine (who I practically worshipped) seemed to make it a habit of openly telling me how essential it was for a man to be well endowed. I would lose my voice, look at the floor and blush a river. I could not hide it as much as I tried. Now I think about these and other similar experiences nearly every day. Yes, VERY humiliation. But also exciting. It became like shame is “good” for me in a way. I (sort of) like the shame now. Like I need it.
Glad you relate to this & enjoyed reading it!! I have a fetish for sph & have always loved teasing men about their short comings 😉
I’ve been put in bras panties as well dressed up as a girl by ms Erika/Ms Daphne and Ms Becky as they said I look better as a girl
I vividly remember the day my SPH fetish was born. I had just hit 435 for a triple on the bench. I was walking on air out of the gym, not even giving a thought that my shirt was three sizes too small and my underwear was three sizes too big. A car passed by playing the “Short Dick Man” song which had just come out. My silly male ego was immediately struck down and I had an orgasm on the spot. I think these days it’s called a “hands free sissygasm”. Anyways, I was hooked for life.
My ex GF turned my embarrassment into a turn on with SPH. I was always embarrassed by my size (3.75) and would like to turn off the lights everytime I hooked up but she kind of brought me out of my shell. She she would joke about it but in a playful way and only in private. She eventually gave me the nickname 3D which stood for Dinky Dick Dan hence the 3 D’s. Shen then began calling me this in public but would never tell anyone what it stood for and at times would just make something up. Now I can’t imagine NOT having my lack of size being made fun of.
I too have a small dick — I call it my “thin pencil clitty”. I love SPH with a LDW mistress telling me how my wife will cuckold me with a BBC, fucking him in front of me while I play with my pencil clitty and they both laugh at me. That turns me on so much.
Miss Jenna, I know we haven’t had a call yet but I love your blogs and I’ll call you soon.
hugs & kisses,
cdCindy XOXOXOX
Hi Cindy!! I had soooo much fun getting to know you on our call!!! I can’t wait to hear more about your naughty sissy gurl adventures!!
Sph is one of My most favorite things to tease subbies about!! It is delightful to make a male blush because of his short cummings!!
Where do you stand on the divisive and controversial issue of whether it is possible to compensate for a small penis?
Well most guys with small dicks try to compensate by making lots of money and/or being a Woman’s bitch so they’re useful to Her; other guys become obsessed with big dicks and become cuckold cocksuckers…..this is just a sample of outcomes. Where do you stand as a guy with penis minimus syndrome?
The ravenous desire to compensate is useful for accomplishing other goals. There are temporary states of delusion where the penis minimus male believes it is actually working. However, one quick glance between the legs snaps the pm male instantly back to reality.
*blush* You are always so insightful, Mistress J-Jenna. You know in detail what a little bitch i am, and *blush* *quiver* You know why, to my embarrassment, you know in intimate detail why i am a Woman’s bitch *blush* *bow* *tremble*
And good bitch at that :P. Looking forward to teasing you again!! >:)
Very astute observation, acorn, and judging from your moniker you know exactly what your proper place is *giggle*!!
*blush* Th-thank You Mistress Jenna *bow* You are always so generous to me, even though i am so unworthy of You. i think of you all the time …
*blush* Th-thank You Mistress Jenna *bow* You are always so generous to me, even though i am so unworthy of You. i think of you all the time … i hope to bow before You at Your feet soon.
Over a year late to the party? Well Hi Mistress Jenna, that’s an Aquarian for ya! Please indulge me and allow me to introduce myself. My name is “little peg” and I’ve been Mistress Erika’s sissy chastity pet for almost 4 years…(4…sigh that unattainable number as I glance into my panties). Oh well, I’ve got a handle on my “not a lot” in life. SPH blog posts are my favourite…how can they not be?
This is the first time I’ve commented on your blog and I firmly….(hmmm, perhaps not in chastity) “steadfastly believe that my attributes truly deserve the critique it deserves. Mistress Erika will tell you I am a delicate pet that embraces my shortcomings…(only when allowed). Thank you Mistress Jenna for a fun post and my chance to say “Hello”
Hi there stubbly nubblesome!! Nice to meet you!!
I miss you scottie, when do I get to torment you again??
“stubbly nubblesome”? Lol! Sounds like I should be living in a cabin in the enchanted woods. Please feel free to call me “stub” for short!🤭🤏
Hahaha a little dicked gnome!!!
*blush* *melt* m-Mistress J-Jenna, so generous of You to mention m-me, or even think of m-me. Th-thank You so much, Mistress. i miss You too, Mistress Jenna. i think of You all the time, Mistress. W-with Your permission, i would like to c-call Y-you soon. *quiver* You are so beautiful, and i am so unworthy of You and useless to You, Mistress. Th-thank You, Mistress Jenna.
Oh cuckie scottie, how I love having you at My feet whimpering and begging for Mistress’s attention; it is soo cute 😛
*blush whimper… Th-thank You, Mistress Jenna, for acknowledging my pitiful, little post. Please, please, please Mistress J-Jenna, i beg you, i beg you for permission to call you again sometime, pl-please *grovel grovel* please Mistress J-Jenna. i know how unworthy i am, and that i don’t deserve one second of Your attention, i d-don’t blame You if you deny m-my plea. Oh please Mistress Jenna, please grant Your permission for just a moment (*blush* You know how quick i am, and how small *blush*), please please. Th-thank You for any time that You took to read this, Mistress Jenna. You are so beautiful, Mistress. *quiver pant whimper grovel*